I get asked all of the time by people why I’m so happy.  Others tell me that they feel understood, felt, seen, heard when they’re with me. They thank me for the pep talk that lifts their spirits. Other quandaries I receive: What is your secret? Please let me pick your brain. I want to know what it is that you are doing – because I want a little piece of whatever that is that you have. People tell me all of the time that I have a “Gift”. For the longest time, I honestly did not know what this “gift” was until I started doing a little research.

I discovered that the reason I am so happy, which I am about to share with you is a life-changing concept. It’s not one that guarantees no challenges, hard times or dark places. But the cool thing is, when you operate in this way-it makes facing these challenges head on and pushing through them super-simple. Not easy, but yes-simple. The concept:

I love myself. I live on purpose. I live in my Flow State.

What is Flow State you ask? It is a fascinating study and I will get to that in a moment but first I want to share with you what it is I’m doing right this moment as I sit here and type:

I’m writing to you. (I love to write and it is effortless bliss for me) I’m listening to Beyonce’s “Drunk In Love” in the background. I absolutely positively freaking LOVE this song. It’s sexy, fire-y, delicious, makes me want to dance dirty, it reminds me of my sexy husband, and it reminds me of 24-7 happiness—

Effortless, Orgasmic, Happiness.

And THAT my friend is what being in your Flow State is.

Flow State = Effortless, Orgasmic, Intense, Happy, Pleasure.

*ALSO AS A SIDE NOTE* I am endlessly in love with myself in every way. I’m in a steamy romance with this beautiful mind, body & spirit of mine. And I am not talking about EGO. Many may say that it is conceited to be in love with yourself. Allow me to correct them by letting you know that It is the healthiest and most natural thing for the rest of your time here on earth for you to go ahead and FALL DEEPLY IN MAD LOVE WITH YOURSELF. It freaking rocks.

Back to FLOW STATE. How do you get there and what does it look/feel like you ask? My answer: DO SOMETHING YOU LOVE DOING.

What Happens?

Well…when we are contributing something important to the world and at the same time we are blissfully happy doing it, could do it all day every day and LOVE it, THAT is your sweet spot for entering into your FLOW. And when you are there you will know it because you’ll feel things like these:

  • A sense of exhilaration and excitement
  • You’re completely immersed and involved
  • There’s a sense of ecstasy and nothing feels like work
  • You have great, crystal-clear inner clarity
  • You get immediate positive feedback
  • Things are effortless and come to you with ease
  • Sense of all space and time disappears
  • You feel like you’re part of doing something much larger than yourself — that you’re part of something MASSIVE
  • You feel intimately connected to God/Source
  • You have a sweet sense of serenity
  • You have absolutely no fears or worries

Sounds lovely yes?  Well it is. I love being in my flow, and it’s a feeling once achieved – makes it impossible to ever accept any other way of being for very long.

Effortless, orgasmic, happy, pleasure in our life is the way it is meant to be and is our birthright. It is THE KEY to being in alignment to receive all of the blessings and miracles that are stored up for all REGARDLESS of who you are, where you’re from, or what religion you are. It’s just a matter of being plugged in.

Are you tuned in, tapped in, and turned on in your life? Are you living your purpose? Are you in your Flow?

If not, let me know in the comments below how I can help you get there—because it’s a beautiful thing to be FREE.

I live for this stuff.